We’ve both been online since the very early 1990s. We both started on AOL where we posted on different message board groups… including a message board about spanking. And then a little while later we found different spanking themed newsgroups, which also used a message board format. A lot of fun and we definitely enjoyed meeting people that were into the same things we were. In fact, we met on a spanking message board back in the later 90s.
A popular topic for threads back in the day were survey questions where a list of activities were given and you’d share how many of them you’d done. Wish we still had access to those… and other… posts from way back when. We did however stumble into one of those old survey questions and we’re going to share it here today… along with our results.
Here is a list of spanking related activities. How many of them have you done?
1. Posted to a spanking newsgroup/bulletin board/mailing list?
2. Bought/downloaded spanking pictures?
3. Bought/downloaded spanking magazines or literature?
4. Been in a spanking chat room?
5. Bought spanking-related books in a real bookstore?
6. Written a spanking story?
7. Looked up the word “spank” in the dictionary?
8. Bought/watched a spanking video?
9. Cyber-spanked someone or been cyber-spanked?
10. Watched someone else get spanked in real life?
11. Been to a fetish shop such as Kinematics or Stormy Leather?
12. Purchased toys specifically for spanking?
13. Made your own spanking toys?
14. Spent more than $100 on a single spanking toy?
15. Owned 10 or more spanking toys?
16. Had a spanking fantasy while masturbating?
17. Had a spanking fantasy about a real life spanking you’d seen/read about?
18. Had a spanking fantasy while having sex?
19. Spanked/been spanked while touching intimately?
20. Spanked/been spanked during sex?
21. Given/had an orgasm while spanking/being spanked?
22. Spanked/been spanked with no specifically sexual overtones whatsoever?
23. Spanked/been spanked on the bare bottom?
24. Spanked/been spanked for more than 10 minutes?
25. Spanked/been spanked for more than an hour?
26. Been involved in a situation where if something went wrong, the only means to stop the scene was a safeword?
27. Used your safeword/ had someone use their safeword?
28. Spanked/been spanked where there was no safeword?
Spanked/been spanked with:
29. A hand?
39. Implement with holes?
40. Ordinary object not intended for spanking, such as a remote control or shoe?
Have you ever:
41. Broken a toy (over someone’s bottom) during spanking play?
42. Switched? (been spanked if you are primarily a top, or spanked someone if you are primarily a bottom)
43. Spanked/been spanked on the back of the thighs?
44. Spanked/been spanked on the front of/inside of the thighs?
45. Spanked/been spanked on the breasts/genitals?
46. Wet your/your partner’s bottom to make it sting more?
47. Spanked/been spanked outside?
48. Spanked/been spanked in a hotel?
49. Spanked/been spanked in a car?
50. Spanked/been spanked in a bath, shower or hot tub?
51. Made someone do something/been made to do something they/you did not want to do?
52. Punished someone/been punished for not doing something correctly or refusing to do something in a scene?
53. Punished someone/been punished for a real life issue?
54. Used spanking “talk”? (ie “You’ve been very naughty,” “I’ll be good.” etc.)
55. Been involved in the acting out of a roleplay fantasy?
56. Been involved in the acting out of an ageplay fantasy?
57. Asked for/been asked for a spanking?
58. Made someone/been made to count the spanks?
59. Made someone stand/stood in the corner?
60. Made someone stand/stood in the corner for more than 5 minutes?
61. Been provoked/provoked someone into spanking you by acting like a brat?
62. Deliberately disobeyed/had someone deliberately disobey, in order to get spanked?
63. Kept a list of “infractions” to spank/be spanked for later?
64. Spanked yourself?
65. Spanked yourself at the instruction of someone else/instructed someone to spank him/herself?
66. Required someone to/been required to call someone Sir/Ma’am, Master/Mistress, Mommy/Daddy, some-other-variation during spanking play?
67. Met someone specifically for spanking play?
68. Traveled more than 100 miles to spank/be spanked?
69. Placed/answered a spanking personal?
70. Gone to a play party or club?
71. Participated in play with someone at a play party or club?
72. Spanked/been spanked by someone whose name you didn’t know?
73. Paid or been paid to spank someone?
74. Been involved in a spanking scene with more than one person at a time?
75. Spanked/been spanked by both men and women? (not necessarily at the same time)
76. Spanked/been spanked on a spanking horse or some other piece of furniture specifically designed for spanking?
77. Made videotapes of your spanking play?
78. Taken pictures of/had your partner take pictures of you during or after spanking play?
79. Admired your/your partner’s bottom in the mirror after a spanking?
80. Spanked someone/been spanked nude?
81. Bought new underwear specifically for spanking play?
82. Worn fetish clothing (schoolgirl outfit, leather, etc?)
83. Worn fetish clothing in public?
84. Spanked/been spanked so that the spankee had trouble sitting afterward?
85. Spanked/been spanked so that the spankee had trouble sitting the next day?
86. Spanked/been spanked so there were marks/bruises showing?
87. Spanked/been spanked so there were marks/bruises showing for more than a day?
88. Had to explain your marks to a vanilla person?
Been involved with any of the following in connection with spanking play:
89. Restraint (ie. holding someone down, trapping their legs, etc.)
90. Restraint with ropes, cuffs, scarves or other bondage toys?
93. Nipple clamps/clothespins?
94. Icy hot or some other heat-enhancing cream?
95. Ginger root or some other burning/stinging substance inserted anally?
96. A butt plug, dildo or vibrator?
99. Temperature taking?
100. Cried/made someone cry from a spanking?
Todd Says: I had 87 yes answers. There are a few questions that are yes for bottoms or switches only… like #64, “Spanked Yourself?” or #88, “Had to explain your marks to a vanilla person?” I have instructed someone to self-spank, and I have helped a spankee explain marks to a vanilla person. So if questions like that had been worded better, I could have given yes answers.
One no answer that surprised me a bit was #94, ever been involved with “Icy hot or some other heat-enhancing cream?” Thinking about it I can’t recall a time that I have done that. I’ve been around others who have done it, and I’m not opposed to the idea. Just hasn’t ever come up.
Also never done #98, “Enemas?” Not opposed to that idea either, though to be honest I worry about it being messy and/or gross. I would try giving an enema though, I think.
Suzy Says: I had 96 yes answers. My four no answers were #14, “Spent more than $100 on a single spanking toy?,” #73, “Paid or been paid to spank someone,” #95, “Ginger root or some other burning/stinging substance inserted anally?“ and #98, “Enemas.“
So it looks like I have some things to add to my ‘to do’ list!